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Being Yourself

Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people, the ones who really belong in your life, will come to you. And stay..... You don't have to be like anyone else, and you don't have to be like anyone else wants you to be. Your individuality is sacred Conform, do as you're told, we know best..." No, the best life is the one you enjoy the most because you retain your own values and remain focused on your vision, not simply aiming to meet others' expectations or to be loyal to values that are not your own. Conforming is the easiest path to take but that may not be the right thing to do and you are unlikely to be happy that way - your conscience will plague you. Because most people follow the path of least resistance, it tends to attract and gather the majority, creating enough social power and influence in turn to create enormous pressure on others around them to conform to the group's values. However, those who make the ...

Death

No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because death is very likely the single best invention of life. It is life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true. Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary. Do not grieve for those to whom freedom has come. Do not mourn because the caterp...

Do good Feel good

You do what you feel in your heart is right, and you are content. Justifiably so. Others may interpret your actions differently but that's up to them... their own motives, beliefs and projections. As Abraham Hicks said, "People will love you. People will hate you. And none of it will have anything to do with you. Be the change you wish to see in the world. It starts at home, anything less would be hypocritical. Then your influence shines like a beacon. When we show kindness to another a bridge is built, and by following the Golden Rule to its logical conclusion you will have formed relations with the many people for whom you harbor good feelings. If more of us consciously tried to build bridges, there's no telling where such kindness might take us. It's important to connect one's life with the larger whole. Without integration there is no meaning, and life without meaning yields despair.  Connections between people grow very quickly. When you give, you h...